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How EMDR and IFS Help Calm the Nervous System
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC A calming ocean-themed anchor symbolizing stability and grounding for the nervous system. Think of your nervous system like a smoke alarm that keeps going off every time you make toast. It’s not broken. It’s just become extra sensitive after too many real fires in the past. Even when there’s no danger in the room, it keeps blaring. You wave a towel in front of it, open a window, and maybe even disconnect the battery for a while, but deep down you k

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Healing Without Forgiveness: What Healing Can Really Look Like
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Wild flowers in full bloom at sunset, symbolizing hope, resilience, and the natural process of healing. A reminder that therapy supports growth in every season. When most people picture healing, they imagine a movie moment. Someone forgives the person who hurt them, the music swells, the credits roll, and suddenly everything feels lighter. Real life is not nearly that tidy. Healing can include forgiveness, but it does not have to. Some people find

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What Progress in Therapy Really Looks Like (Small Steps That Matter)
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Growth doesn't always happen in big leaps. Sometimes it starts quietly, beneath the surface, one small sprout at a time. One of the most common questions people ask themselves a few weeks or months into therapy is, “Am I actually getting anywhere?” It’s a fair question. Many people arrive with a quiet hope for a clear before and after moment, as if healing happens like a big reveal on a renovation show. In reality, therapy is far less dramatic and

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The Myth That Strong People Should Handle Life Alone
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC There is a story many of us carry that goes something like this: If I was really strong, I would not need...

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Other People Have It Worse, So I Should Just Get Over It: Why Your Feelings Still Matter
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Every grain of sand matters, just like every feeling matters, even if it seems small compared to someone...

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If I Can’t Remember It Clearly, Can It Still Affect Me?
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Have you ever wondered: “If I can’t remember exactly what happened, is it really affecting me? And if I don’t...

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Why Am I Always Tired and Unmotivated?
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC You’ve had your coffee. Maybe even two. You got a decent night’s sleep, nothing out of the ordinary. But...

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Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Relationships?
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC You know that moment when you’re sitting across from someone new: charming, funny, maybe even a little...

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Does Going to Therapy Mean You’re Broken or Weak?
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Picture this: you’ve been holding it all together for months, maybe years. On the outside, it looks fine:...

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What Fixing My Toilet Taught Me About Healing
Lianne Perry, MA., MSc., RCC A running toilet, a YouTube tutorial, and a surprising lesson in self-trust. Last week, I fixed my...

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The Psychology Behind Our Joy Over Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s Engagement
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Unless you’ve been living under a Wi-Fi–less rock, you’ve probably heard the news: Taylor Swift and Travis...

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Embracing Your Inner Complexity: The Power of Internal Family Systems Therapy
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Like a still lake reflecting the forest around it, Internal Family Systems therapy helps you notice and...

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The Let Them Theory, By Mel Robbins – What's It All About??
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Letting go and finding peace - inspired by Mel Robbins' Let Them Theory You know those days where you’re...

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What Trauma Really Is (It's Not Just the "Big Stuff")
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Healing doesn't always look like hard work - it can feel like small moments of lightness returning. Trauma...

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Online Counselling: Why Virtual Therapy Works Better Than You Think
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC I’ll be honest: I was a reluctant convert to online counselling. Like many therapists, I worried I’d lose...

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When Healing Gets “Stuck”: How EMDR Can Help
Lianne Perry, MA, MSc., RCC Picture this: you’re walking through your living room and stub your toe on the coffee table. Ouch. Maybe you...

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